A woman's G spot is legendary, but what about a man's? Turns out there is one. In this article we will tell you where it is and how to properly stimulate it.
What is the male G spot
Oh yes, the male G spot is real. This is not fiction and is not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is how it is more correct to call the point P. And to most of the general public it is generally known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that there are a lot of nerve endings in the prostate, which makes it an ideal point for maximum pleasure.
This, by the way, is confirmed by research: scientists found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate with sexual play, a man can get two (or even three) times stronger orgasm than usual.
How to prepare for the search
Many men are full of prejudices related to anal sex. Although prostate stimulation, of course, cannot change the orientation of a heterosexual (and if it can, then he is not so heterosexual after all). Therefore, if you want to seek the P point, you must first get your partner's consent. Additionally, experts advise detailing what you plan to do so he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus doesn't produce any natural lubrication, it's important to make sure you have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably tasteless and unscented, so you don't accidentally irritate your skin). Also, be sure to file your nails to avoid damaging the sensitive area, or at least use a glove as a barrier.
Stimulation rules
So now you know where point P is and your man doesn't mind trying. What's next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide on the correct actions on their own, so use the following techniques:
- "come here" movement.By making movements with your index finger, as if asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough not to scare your partner, but at the same time actively enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase the speed.
- Circles and movements.Circular and moving motions also work well, and their speed should also gradually increase. Keep in mind that too much pressure on the prostate can cause the urge to use the toilet, so it's great for a man to empty his bladder before sex.
- Sex toys.If you don't want to go anywhere with your finger, but want to experiment, use massagers for anal games. With them, in the same way, you can vary the speed and type of vibrations, so that the partner does not lose anything, but even vice versa.
In conclusion, we remind you once again that body parts have no sexual orientation, so a couple can safely practice anal sex in both directions. And we especially note that if in the process the partner says that he does not like it and that he should stop, you should listen to him. After all, we are all different. You can try it next time it's ready again, but for now, do something that always makes you happy.